How to give a sensual massage to your partner that they will never forget | The Times of India (2024)

There is nothing more refreshing and sensual than a good massage, especially if your partner gives you one! Massages can be a very relaxing, stimulating and sensual experience for you and your partner. In case, you are looking for ways to turn on your significant other tonight in a different-yet-pleasing manner, you are reading the right article. Here are a few massage techniques that will destress you partner and set both of you on a sensual ride.

First of all, choose a place (it does not have to be your bedroom always!) where you would like to massage your partner. Start with picking up a nice body oil, dimming the lights and lighting a few aromatic candles. Make a playlist of his/her favourite romantic songs and decorate the bed with flower petals. This accompanied with a glass of red wine won’t be a bad idea. Trust us, your partner would be taken by surprise.

Instead of putting on your regular night suit, try wearing something different. Put on a robe and something ‘interesting’ beneath it. You understand what we are indicating, right? Search your wardrobe and pull out the inner wear that is quirky and raunchy, and something that will blow your partner’s mind the moment they see it.

Even if you are an amateur, you can manage to master the basic techniques of massaging in no time. Thanks to the internet! Start with looking up for Shiatsu technique—all you need to do it to put the pressure on the body using your thumb and moving it in a circular motion. It can be applied anywhere on the body and is quite relaxing. You can also google for the tutorials for kneading, compression, and other techniques. Further, do not forget to end the session with a good foot massage. Your partner will thank you for it.

Apart from concentrating on stomach, arms and the back, make sure you cover the areas that are often ignored during a massage. For instance, the ears! Gently squeeze the earlobes between your thumb and forefinger and trace the lining of the ear. Proceed ahead to the other areas including the back of the knees, the soles of the feet, lower back, nape of the neck, etc.

Bring out your creative streak and look for ways to make the massage as sensual as possible. You do not have to use your hands to massage everywhere (you have a tongue as well!), blindfold or handcuff your partner, whisper sweet nothings and plant small kisses while massaging and you do not need to be dressed during the entire deed…there is so much you can do, friend!

This one is the most important technique. Start slow and give you partner the time to relax. Start with strokes on chest, shoulders and the back, and later proceed to the erogenous zones. Take at least five to seven minutes to massage your significant other’s body, and then see how the night turns out to be. You can thank us later!

(All images used here are representational)